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Abantu benshi bitiranya UBWENGE no KUGIRA UBUMENYI cyangwa UBUTWARE, maze umuntu w’umuhanga cyane cyangwa ufite ubwenge bwinshi, bakamwita ko azi ubwenge cyane.

Twebwe twemeza ko UBWENGE mu muntu budashidikanywaho kandi nta bwoba bwo kuyoboka, ubwoko bwihariye cyane bwo KUGIRA UBUMENYI BW’IMBERE yigenga rwose ku gikorwa icyo ari cyo cyose cyo mu mutwe.

Ubushobozi bw’UBWENGE butuma tumenya ubwacu.

UBWENGE butanga ubumenyi bwuzuye bw’icyo URI cyo, aho uri, ibyo uzi neza, ibyo utazi neza.

INYIGISHO ZA PSYCHOLOGIE YO MPINDUKA zigisha ko umuntu wenyine ashobora kwimenya.

Ni twe twenyine dushobora kumenya niba dufite ubwenge mu gihe runaka cyangwa tutabufite.

Umuntu wenyine ashobora kumenya ubwenge bwe bwite kandi niba bubaho mu gihe runaka cyangwa butabaho.

Umuntu wenyine kandi nta wundi usibye we, ashobora kubona mu kanya gato, ko mbere y’ako kanya, mbere y’ako kanya, atari afite ubwenge, yari afite ubwenge businziriye cyane, nyuma akazibagirwa ubwo buryo cyangwa akabubika nk’urwibutso, nk’urwibutso rw’uburyo bukomeye.

Ni ngombwa kumenya ko UBWENGE mu NYAMASWA IFITE IMPAMVU atari ikintu gihoraho, gihoraho.

Ubusanzwe UBWENGE mu NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARI yitwa umuntu, burasinzira cyane.

Biragoye, biragoye cyane ibihe UBWENGE bubyuka; inyamaswa ifite ubwenge irakora, itwara imodoka, irashyingirwa, irapfa, n’ibindi. ifite ubwenge businziriye rwose kandi mu bihe bidasanzwe cyane irabyuka:

Ubuzima bw’umuntu ni ubuzima bwo kurota, ariko atekereza ko abyutse kandi ntiyigera yemera ko arota, ko afite ubwenge businziriye.

Niba hari umuntu ubyutse, yakumva isoni cyane, agahita asobanukirwa n’ubuswa bwe, uguseka kwe.

Ubu buzima burasekeje cyane, burababaje cyane kandi ni gake cyane bwiza.

Niba umukinnyi w’iteramakofe abyutse ako kanya mu gihe cyo kurwana, yareba isoni abantu bose bubashywe maze agahunga igitaramo giteye ubwoba, abantu benshi basinziriye kandi batazi ubwenge baratangara.

Iyo umuntu yemeye ko afite UBWENGE BUSINZIRIYE, mushobora kwizera ko yatangiye kubyuka.

Amashuri y’imyitwarire ya Sicologie ishaje itemera ko UBWENGE bubaho ndetse n’akamaro k’ijambo nk’iryo, arega uko ibintu byifashe. Abayoboke b’amashuri nk’ayo basinzira cyane mu buryo butazwi.

Abitiranya ubwenge n’imikorere ya Psychologique; ibitekerezo, amarangamutima, ibitekerezo byo gutwara ibinyabiziga n’ibyiyumvo, rwose ntibazi ubwenge cyane, barasinzira cyane.

Abemera ko UBWENGE bubaho ariko bagahakana rwose amashuri atandukanye yo kwimenya, barega kubura ubunararibonye bwo kwimenya, kurota ubwenge.

Umuntu wese wabyutse by’akanya gato, azi neza ko hariho amashuri atandukanye yo kwimenya ashobora kugaragara muri we.

Igihe cya mbere. Tumaze igihe kingana iki tumenya?

Inshuro ya kabiri. inshuro zingahe twabyutse ubwenge?

Igatatu. UBUNINI N’UBWIJYANGA. Ni iki azamenya?

INYIGISHO ZA PSYCHOLOGIE YO MPINDUKA na PHILOKALIA ya kera zemeza ko binyuze mu KWIYEMEZA gukomeye cyane kw’ubwoko bwihariye cyane ushobora kubyutsa ubwenge maze ukabugira buhoraho kandi bugenzurwa.

INTEGO Y’UBUZIMA NI UKUBYUTSA UBWENGE. Nta cyo bimaze kwiga imyaka icumi cyangwa cumi n’itanu mu Ishuri, Koleji na Kaminuza, niba tuva mu mashuri turi imashini zisinziriye.

Ntabwo ari ugukabya kuvuga ko binyuze mu KWIYEMEZA gukomeye, NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARI ishobora kumenya ubwayo byibuze iminota mike.

Biragaragara ko muri ibi hakunze kubaho ibintu bidasanzwe uyu munsi tugomba gushakisha itara rya Diógenes, ibyo bintu bidasanzwe bigaragazwa n’ABAGABO B’UKURI, BUDDHA, YESU, HERMES, QUETZACOATL, n’ibindi.

Aba bashinze AMADINI bari bafite UBWENGE BUHORAHO, bari ABAHAWE UMURONGOZI.

Ubusanzwe abantu NTIBAMENYA. Igitekerezo cyo kumenya ubwenge mu buryo buhoraho, kivuka mu kwibuka no mu myumvire yose.

Umuntu ukora imyitozo yo gusubiza amaso inyuma kugira ngo yibuke ubuzima bwe bwose, ashobora kwibuka, kwibuka inshuro yashatse, abana yabyaye, ababyeyi be, abigisha be, n’ibindi, ariko ntibivuze kubyuka ubwenge, ibi ni ukwibuka ibikorwa bitamenyekanye kandi biraryo.

Ni ngombwa gusubiramo ibyo twavuze mu bice byabanje. Hariho ibihe bine byo KUGIRA UBWENGE. Ibi ni: GUSINZIRA, uko ibintu byifashe, UBWENGE BWO KWIYUMVIRA NO KUGIRA UBWENGE.

NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARE ikennye yitwa UMUNTU, ibaho muri ibyo bihe bibiri gusa. Igice kimwe cy’ubuzima bwe kigenda asinzira ikindi kiri mu cyo bita IGIHE CYO KUBYUKA, nacyo ni ukurota.

Umuntu usinzira kandi arota, atekereza ko abyutse kubera ko agarutse mu gihe cyo kubyuka, ariko mu by’ukuri muri iki gihe cyo kubyuka arakomeza kurota.

Ibi bisa n’umuseke, inyenyeri zirihisha kubera umucyo w’izuba ariko zirakomeza kubaho nubwo amaso adashobora kuzibona.

Mu buzima busanzwe busanzwe, umuntu ntazi na kimwe ku BWENGE BWO KWIYUMVIRA ndetse na none UBWENGE BWO KWITOZA.

Nyamara abantu baribonekeza kandi buri wese atekereza ko azi UBWENGE BWO KWIYUMVIRA; NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARE yizera byimazeyo ko ifite ubwenge maze ntizigera yemera ko ibwiwe ko isinziriye kandi ko ibaho itamenya ubwayo.

Hariho ibihe bidasanzwe NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARE ibyuka, ariko ibyo bihe ni bike cyane, bishobora kugaragara mu kanya gato ko gutinya cyane, mu gihe cy’amarangamutima akomeye, mu bihe bishya, mu bihe bishya biteganijwe, n’ibindi.

Birababaje rwose kuba NYAMASWA IFITE UBUTWARE itagira ubushobozi na bumwe kuri ibyo bihe byo kwimenya by’akanya gato, ko idashobora kubyutsa ko idashobora kubigira bihoraho.

Nyamara UBUZIMA bwemeza ko umuntu ashobora KUGERA ku kugenzura UBWENGE maze akagira UBWENGE BWO KWIYUMVIRA.

INYIGISHO ZA PSYCHOLOGIE YO MPINDUKA ifite uburyo bwo gushakisha UBWENGE.

Niba dushaka KUBYUTSA UBWENGE dukeneye gutangira dusuzuma, twiga hanyuma tukakuraho imbogamizi zose zitugeraho mu nzira, muri iki gitabo twigishije inzira yo KUBYUTSA UBWENGE duhereye mu mashuri.