Urubyiruko

Urubyiruko rugabanyijemo ibihe bibiri, buri gihe kimara imyaka irindwi. Igihe cya mbere gitangira ku myaka 21 kikarangira ku myaka 28. Igihe cya kabiri gitangira ku myaka 28 kikarangira ku myaka 35.

Urufatiro rw’urubyiruko ruboneka mu rugo, ku ishuri no mu muhanda. Urubyiruko rurezwe ku rufatiro rw’UBURERE BW’INGENZI mu by’ukuri rurubaka kandi rwubahisha.

Urubyiruko rurezwe ku rufatiro rw’ibinyoma, nk’ingaruka yabyo, ni inzira itariyo.

Abagabo benshi bakoresha igice cya mbere cy’ubuzima bwabo bahindura igice gisigaye kibabaje.

Urubyiruko, bitewe n’imyumvire itariyo y’ubugabo bw’ibinyoma, akenshi rugwa mu maboko y’indaya.

Ibikorwa by’urukozasoni by’urubyiruko ni inyandiko zakozwe ku busaza zigomba kwishyurwa n’inyungu zihenze cyane nyuma y’imyaka mirongo itatu.

Nta BUBURERE BW’INGENZI, urubyiruko ruba ubusinzi buhoraho: ni umuriro w’amakosa, inzoga n’amarangamutima y’inyamaswa.

Ibyo umuntu azaba byose mu buzima bwe biboneka mu buryo bushoboka mu myaka mirongo itatu ya mbere y’ubuzima.

Mu bikorwa byose bikomeye bya kimuntu tuzi, haba mu bihe bya kera cyangwa mu bihe byacu, ibyinshi byatangijwe mbere y’imyaka mirongo itatu.

Umuntu ugeze ku myaka mirongo itatu rimwe na rimwe yumva nk’aho avuye mu rugamba rukomeye aho yabonye bagenzi be benshi bagwa umwe nyuma y’undi.

Ku myaka mirongo itatu, abagabo n’abagore bamaze gutakaza ubuzima bwabo n’ishyaka ryabo kandi niba bananiwe mu mishinga yabo ya mbere, buzura ibitekerezo bibi bagata umukino.

Ibyishimo byo mu gihe cy’ubukure bisimbura ibyishimo by’ubuto. Nta BUBURERE BW’INGENZI, umurage w’ubusaza akenshi ni ukwiheba.

Urubyiruko ni urw’igihe gito. Ubwiza ni ubwiza bw’urubyiruko, ariko ni amayobera, ntiburamba.

Urubyiruko rufite Ubuhanga buzima n’Ubwenge budakomeye. Mu buzima hari urubyiruko ruke rufite Ubwenge bukomeye n’Ubuhanga buzima.

Nta BUBURERE BW’INGENZI, urubyiruko ruba abantu barangwa n’amarangamutima, abasinzi, abagambanyi, abantu basebya abandi, abantu bibanda ku irari ry’umubiri, abantu bararikira iby’abandi, abantu barya cyane, abanyamururumba, abagira ishyari, abafuhira abandi, abanyagitugu, abajura, abibone, abanebwe, n’ibindi.

Ubuto ni Izuba ry’icyi rihita rirenga. Urubyiruko rukunda gusesagura indangagaciro z’ingenzi z’ubuto.

Abantu bakuze bakora ikosa ryo gukoresha urubyiruko bakabajyana ku rugamba.

Abantu bakiri bato bashobora kwihindura no guhindura Isi niba bayobowe n’inzira y’UBURERE BW’INGENZI.

Mu buto twuzuye ibyishimo bitugeza gusa ku guheranwa n’agahinda.

JYI yifashisha umuriro w’ubuto kugira ngo ikomere kandi ibe ikomeye.

JYI ishaka kunyurwa n’amarangamutima ku giciro icyo ari cyo cyose kabone n’iyo ubusaza bwaba bubi rwose.

Abantu bakiri bato bashishikajwe no kwiyegurira ubusambanyi, vino n’ibyishimo by’ubwoko bwose.

Urubyiruko ntirushaka kumenya ko kuba imbata y’ibyishimo ari ibintu by’indaya ariko si iby’abagabo b’ukuri.

Nta byishimo biramba bihagije. Inyota y’ibyishimo ni indwara ituma INYAMASWA ZIFITE UBWIENGE zisuzugurika kurusha izindi. Umusizi ukomeye uvuga Icyesipanyoli Jorge Manrique yaravuze ati:

“Mbega ukuntu ibyishimo bigenda vuba, mbega ukuntu nyuma yo kubitekerezaho, bitera agahinda, mbega ukuntu ku bwacu igihe cyose cyashize cyari cyiza kurusha iki”

Aristote avuga ku byishimo yaravuze ati: “Iyo bigeze ku gucira abantu urubanza rw’ibyishimo ntituba abacamanza batabogama”.

INYAMASWA IFITE UBWIENGE yishimira kwemera ibyishimo. Federico Mukuru ntiyagize ikibazo cyo kwemeza yivuye inyuma ati: “IBYISHIMO NI BYO BYIZA NYABYO MU BUZIMA”.

Agahinda katagira uko kangana ni agaterwa no kurambiriza ibyishimo bikabije.

Abantu bakiri bato b’abasinzi ni benshi nk’ibyatsi bibi. JYI isinzi ihora yemeza ibyishimo.

Umusinzi UDAKIRA yanga Ishyingiranwa cyangwa agahitamo kurigizayo. Ikintu gikomeye ni ukurigizayo Ishyingiranwa witwaje ko ushaka kwishimisha ibyishimo byose byo ku isi.

Ni ibisanzwe gukoma mu nkokora imbaraga z’urubyiruko hanyuma ukabona gushyingiranwa, abagizweho ingaruka n’ubupfapfa nk’ubwo ni abana.

Abagabo benshi bashyingiranwa kuko bananiwe, abagore benshi bashyingiranwa kubera amatsiko kandi ingaruka z’ubupfapfa nk’ubwo buri gihe ni ugucika intege.

Umugabo wese w’umunyabwenge akunda by’ukuri n’umutima we wose umugore yahisemo.

Tugomba buri gihe gushyingiranwa mu buto niba koko tudashaka kugira ubusaza bubi.

Hariho igihe cy’ibintu byose mu buzima. Ko umusore yashyingiranwa ni ibintu bisanzwe, ariko ko umusaza yashyingiranwa ni ubupfapfa.

Urubyiruko rugomba gushyingiranwa rukamenya gushinga urugo. Ntitugomba kwibagirwa ko igihangange cy’ishyari cyangiza ingo.

Salomo yaravuze ati: “Ishyari ni rito nk’igituro; amakara yaryo ni amakara y’umuriro”.

Ubwoko bw’INYAMASWA ZIFITE UBWIENGE bugira ishyari nk’imbwa. Ishyari ryose ni iry’INYAMASWA.

Umugabo ufuhira umugore ntazi uwo abara. Byaba byiza utamufuhira kugira ngo umenye ubwoko bw’umugore dufite.

Uguhahamuka guhura n’uburozi kw’umugore ufuhira umugabo bitera urupfu kurusha amenyo y’imbwa ifite ibisazi.

Ni ibinyoma kuvuga ko aho ishyari rihari hari urukundo. Ishyari ntirigera rivuka mu rukundo, urukundo n’ishyari ntibijyana. Inkomoko y’ishyari iboneka mu bwoba.

JYI yemeza ishyari ifite impamvu z’ubwoko bwinshi. JYI itinya gutakaza ikintu gikundwa.

Ushaka by’ukuri gusesa JYI agomba buri gihe kuba yiteguye gutakaza ikintu akunda cyane.

Mu bikorwa dushobora kugaragaza nyuma y’imyaka myinshi yo kwitegereza, ko umusore wese w’inkone ahinduka umugabo ufuhira umugore we.

Umugabo wese yabaye umusambanyi ukabije

Umugabo n’umugore bagomba kuba bunze ubumwe ku bushake kandi kubera urukundo, ariko si kubera ubwoba n’ishyari.

Imbere y’ITEGEKO RIKURU umugabo agomba kubazwa imyitwarire ye n’umugore kubera iye. Umugabo ntashobora kubazwa imyitwarire y’umugore kandi umugore ntashobora kubazwa imyitwarire y’umugabo. Buri wese naryozwe imyitwarire ye hanyuma ishyari riseswe.

Ikibazo cy’ingenzi cy’urubyiruko ni Ishyingiranwa.

Umukobwa ukundana n’abasore benshi aguma ari inkumi “kuko bombi bamusuzugura.

Birakenewe ko abakobwa bamenya kubungabunga umukunzi wabo niba koko bashaka gushyingiranwa.

Birakenewe kutitiranya URUKUNDO n’AMARANGAMUTIMA. Abasore bakundana n’abakobwa ntibazi gutandukanya urukundo n’amarangamutima.

Birihutirwa kumenya ko AMARANGAMUTIMA ari uburozi buyobya ubwenge n’umutima.

Umugabo wese urangwa n’amarangamutima n’umugore wese urangwa n’amarangamutima bashobora no kurahira amarira y’amaraso ko bakundana by’ukuri.

Nyuma yo kunyurwa n’amarangamutima y’inyamaswa, inzu y’amakarita iragwa hasi.

Ugutsindwa kw’amashyingiranwa menshi cyane biterwa n’uko bashyingiranywe kubera amarangamutima y’inyamaswa, ariko si kubera URUKUNDO.

Intambwe ikomeye dutera mu buto ni Ishyingiranwa kandi mu Mashuri, Amakoleji na za Kaminuza hagomba gutegurwa abasore n’abakobwa kuri iyi ntambwe y’ingenzi.

Birababaje ko abasore n’abakobwa benshi bashyingiranwa kubera inyungu z’ubukungu cyangwa kubera inyungu za sosiyete.

Iyo Ishyingiranwa rikozwe kubera amarangamutima y’inyamaswa cyangwa kubera inyungu za sosiyete cyangwa inyungu z’ubukungu, ingaruka ni ugutsindwa.

Hariho abashakanye benshi batsindwa mu ishyingiranwa kubera kutemeranya ku mico.

Umugore washyingiranwe n’umusore ufuhira umugabo, urakara, urakaze, azaba umugore wagizweho ingaruka n’umwicanyi.

Umusore washyingiranwe n’umugore ufuhira umugabo, urakaye, ufite umujinya, biragaragara ko azamara ubuzima bwe mu muriro utazima.

Kugira ngo hagireho urukundo nyakuri hagati y’ibiremwa bibiri, birihutirwa ko nta marangamutima y’inyamaswa abaho, birakenewe gusesa JYI y’ishyari, birakenewe gukuraho umujinya, ni ngombwa kutagira inyungu iyo ari yo yose.

JYI yangiza ingo, JYI YANGYE irasenya ubwumvikane. Niba abasore n’abakobwa biga UBURERE BWACU BW’INGENZI bakiyemeza gusesa JYI, biragaragara ko bazashobora kubona inzira y’ISHYINGIRANWA RITUNGANYE.

Gusesa EGO ni bwo habaho umunezero nyakuri mu ngo. Abasore n’abakobwa bashaka kugira umunezero mu ishyingiranwa tubategeka kwiga neza UBURERE BWACU BW’INGENZI no gusesa JYI.

Ababyeyi benshi b’imiryango bafuhira abakobwa babo mu buryo buteye ubwoba kandi ntibashaka ko bagira abakunzi. Imikorere nk’iyo ni ubupfapfa ijana ku ijana kuko abakobwa bakeneye kugira abakunzi no gushyingiranwa.

Ingaruka zo kutumva ibyo ni abakunzi mu bwihisho, mu muhanda, bahora bafite akaga ko kugwa mu maboko y’umusore ushukanyi.

Abakobwa bagomba buri gihe kugira umudendezo wo kugira umukunzi wabo, ariko kubera ko batarasesa JYI, birakwiye kutabareka bonyine n’umukunzi wabo.

Abasore n’abakobwa bagomba kugira umudendezo wo gukorera ibirori byabo mu rugo. Ibirangaza bizima ntibyica umuntu kandi Urubyiruko rukeneye kugira ibirangaza.

Ibyica urubyiruko ni inzoga, itabi, ubusambanyi, ibirori by’urukozasoni, ubwigenge bukabije, amabari, amakabare, n’ibindi.

Ibirori byo mu muryango, imbyino ziteye ishema, umuziki mwiza, gutemberera mu cyaro, n’ibindi, ntibishobora kwica umuntu.

Ubwenge bwangiza urukundo. Abasore benshi batakaje amahirwe yo gushyingiranwa n’abagore beza bitewe n’ubwoba bwabo bw’ubukungu, ibitekerezo byo ku munsi w’ejo n’imihangayiko yo ku munsi w’ejo.

Ubwoba bw’ubuzima, inzara, ubukene n’imishinga y’ubwenge idafite ishingiro ihinduka impamvu y’ingenzi yo kwimurira ubukwe.

Abasore benshi biyemeza kutashyingiranwa kugeza igihe bafite amafaranga runaka, inzu bwite, imodoka nshya n’ibindi bintu byinshi by’ubupfu nk’aho ibyo byose ari umunezero.

Birababaje ko ubwo bwoko bw’abagabo butakaza amahirwe meza yo gushyingiranwa bitewe n’ubwoba bw’ubuzima, urupfu, icyo abantu bazavuga, n’ibindi.

Ubwo bwoko bw’abagabo buguma ari inkoramutima ubuzima bwabo bwose cyangwa bagashyingiranwa batinze cyane, iyo batagishoboye gushinga umuryango no kurera abana babo.

Koko ikintu umugabo akeneye cyose kugira ngo atunge umugore we n’abana be ni ukugira umwuga cyangwa umurimo wicisha bugufi, ibyo ni byo byose.

Abakobwa benshi baguma ari inkoramutima kubera ko bari guhitamo umugabo. Abagore b’abarerezi, abanyamururumba, abanyamwaga baguma ari inkoramutima cyangwa bagatsindwa burundu mu ishyingiranwa.

Birakenewe ko abakobwa basobanukirwa ko umugabo wese asuzugura umugore unyurwa n’ibye, umuhanga mu kubara no wishyira hejuru.

Abagore bamwe bakiri bato bifuza kuroba umugabo basiga amarangi menshi ku maso yabo, barogosa amashi, bagorora imisatsi, bambara imisatsi y’ubukorikori n’ibihu by’ubukorikori, aba bagore ntibasobanukirwa imitekerereze y’abagabo.

Umugabo kuva kera yanga ibipupe byasizwe amarangi kandi agashima ubwiza busanzwe bwose n’akamwenyu kadasanzwe.

Umugabo ashaka kubona mu mugore ubunyangamugayo, ubworoherane, urukundo nyakuri kandi rutagira icyo rugamije, ubworoherane bw’imiterere.

Abakobwa bifuza gushyingiranwa bakeneye gusobanukirwa neza imitekerereze y’igitsina gabo.

URUKUNDO ni SUMUM y’ubwenge. Urukundo rugaburirwa n’urukundo. Umuriro w’ubuto bw’iteka ni urukundo.