Umunyenga

Abantu barakora buri munsi, baharanira kubaho, bashaka kubaho mu buryo bumwe cyangwa ubundi, ariko ntibishimye. Ibyo kwishima biri mu gishinwa - nk’uko bivugwa hirya no hino - ikibabaje kurushaho ni uko abantu babizi, ariko mu bibazo byinshi, bisa nkaho batatakaza icyizere cyo kuzagera ku byishimo umunsi umwe, batazi uko cyangwa uburyo.

Yemwe bantu bakennye! Mbega ukuntu bababara! Ariko kandi, barashaka kubaho, batinya kubura ubuzima.

Iyo abantu baza gusobanukirwa bike ku bijyanye na Psychologie mpinduramatwara, bashobora no gutekereza mu buryo butandukanye; ariko mu by’ukuri ntacyo bazi, barashaka kubaho hagati y’ibyago byabo kandi ibyo ni byo byose.

Hariho ibihe bishimishije kandi byiza cyane, ariko ibyo si ibyishimo; abantu bafata ibyishimo nk’ibyishimo.

“Pachanga”, “Parranda”, ubusinzi, ubwiyandarike; ni ibyishimo by’inyamaswa, ariko si ibyishimo… Ariko kandi, hari ibirori byiza bidafite ubusinzi, nta bwiyandarike, nta nzoga, n’ibindi, ariko ibyo na byo si ibyishimo…

Uri umuntu ugira neza? Wiyumva ute iyo ubyina? Urakundana? Urakunda by’ukuri? Wiyumva ute ubyinana n’umuntu ukunda? Nimwemerere mbabere umunyamaswa muri iyi minsi mbabwira ko ibi na byo atari ibyishimo.

Niba ushaje, niba ibi byishimo bitagukurura, niba bikuryohera nk’inyenzi; Mumbabarire niba nkubwiye ko waba utandukanye iyo uba ukiri muto kandi wuzuye ibyiringiro.

Uko byagenda kose, havugwa ibyo bavuga, ubyina cyangwa ntubyine, urakundana cyangwa ntukundane, ufite cyangwa udafite ibyo bita amafaranga, ntabwo wishimye nubwo wabyibwira.

Umuntu amara ubuzima bwe ashakisha ibyishimo hose kandi agapfa atarabyibonera.

Muri Amerika y’Epfo hari benshi bafite ibyiringiro byo kuzatsindira igihembo gikuru cya tombola umunsi umwe, bizera ko ariko bazagera ku byishimo; bamwe ndetse barayitsindira, ariko ntibigere ku byishimo bifuzwa cyane.

Iyo umuntu akiri muto, arota umugore mwiza, umwamikazi wo mu “Ijoro Igihumbi n’Imwe”, ikintu kidasanzwe; nyuma hakaza ukuri gukomeye kw’ibintu: Umugore, abana bato bagomba gutungwa, ibibazo bikomeye by’ubukungu, n’ibindi.

Nta gushidikanya ko uko abana bakura, ibibazo na byo birakura ndetse bikaba bitagishobotse…

Uko umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa akura, inkweto zigenda ziba nini kandi igiciro kikiyongera, ibyo birumvikana.

Uko ibiremwa bikura, imyenda igenda igura cyane kandi ihenze; iyo amafaranga ahari nta kibazo kibaho, ariko niba atahari, ibintu birakomera kandi bikababaza cyane…

Ibi byose byari kuba byoroshye cyane, iyo umuntu aba afite umugore mwiza, ariko iyo umugabo w’umukene ahemukiwe, “iyo bamuca inyuma”, bimaze iki rero guharanira gushaka amafaranga?

Ku bw’amahirwe make, hariho ibibazo bidasanzwe, abagore beza, abafatanyabikorwa b’ukuri haba mu butunzi no mu byago, ariko ku bw’amahirwe macye menshi umugabo ntabwo abasha kubaha ndetse akabasiga kubera abandi bagore bagiye kumubabaza ubuzima.

Abakobwa benshi barota “igikomangoma cy’ubururu”, ku bw’amahirwe make, ibintu biba bitandukanye cyane kandi mu by’ukuri umugore w’umukene ashirana n’umwicanyi…

Icyifuzo gikuru cy’umugore ni ukugira urugo rwiza no kuba umubyeyi: “amahame yera”, ariko nubwo umugabo amubera mwiza cyane, ibintu bigoye cyane, amaherezo byose birashira: abahungu n’abakobwa barashyingiranwa, baragenda cyangwa bakishyura nabi ababyeyi babo maze urugo rukarangira burundu.

Muri rusange, muri iyi si ikaze tubamo, nta bantu bishimye bahari… Abantu bose bakennye ni abanyamubabaro.

Mu buzima twamenye indogobe nyinshi zipakiye amafaranga, zuzuye ibibazo, impaka z’ubwoko bwose, zikabije imisoro, n’ibindi. Ntibishimye.

Bimaze iki kuba umukire niba udafite ubuzima bwiza? Abakire bakennye! Rimwe na rimwe barushaho kubabara kurusha umusabirizi uwo ari we wese.

Byose birashira muri ubu buzima: ibintu birashira, abantu barashira, ibitekerezo birashira, n’ibindi. Abafite amafaranga barashira n’abatayafite na bo barashira kandi nta n’umwe uzi ibyishimo nyakuri.

Benshi barashaka kwihunga bakoresheje ibiyobyabwenge cyangwa inzoga, ariko mu by’ukuri ntibabasha kubigeraho gusa, ahubwo n’ikibabaje kurushaho, bagwa mu muriro w’ingeso.

Inshuti z’inzoga cyangwa urumogi cyangwa “L.S.D.”, n’ibindi, zirazimira nk’umwuka iyo umunyangeso afashe icyemezo cyo guhindura ubuzima.

Guhunga “Njye ubwanjye”, “Njye ubwanjye”, ntibigere ku byishimo. Byaba byiza “gufata ikimasa ku mahembe”, kwitegereza “NJYE”, kuyiga hagamijwe kuvumbura impamvu z’ububabare.

Iyo umuntu avumbuye impamvu nyakuri z’agahinda kenshi n’agahinda, birumvikana ko hari icyo ashobora gukora…

Niba umuntu abashije kurangiza “Njye ubwanjye”, “Ubusinzi bwanjye”, “Ingeso zanjye”, “Urukundo rwanjye”, zinteza agahinda kenshi mu mutima, hamwe n’impungenge zanjye zangiza ubwonko kandi zikandwara, n’ibindi, n’ibindi, birumvikana ko icyo gihe hazaza ibyo bitari iby’igihe, ibyo biri hejuru y’umubiri, by’urukundo n’ubwenge, ibyo mu by’ukuri bitazwi n’ubwenge kandi bikitwa: IBISHIMO!

Nta gushidikanya ko mu gihe ubwenge bukomeje gufungirwa, bugafungirwa muri “NJYE UMWANJYE”, muri “NJYE UBWANJYE”, ntibishobora na gato kumenya ibyishimo byemewe.

Ibyishimo bifite uburyohe “NJYE UBWANJYE”, “NJYE UBWANJYE” itigeze na rimwe imenya.