Umwijima

Kimwe mu bibazo bikomeye kurusha ibindi byo mu gihe cyacu ni ikibazo kigoye cy’ubwuzuzanyi bw’inyigisho.

Nta gushidikanya ko muri iki gihe, amashuri y’ubuhezanduru n’ubuhezanduru bwikubye cyane hirya no hino.

Ubucuruzi bw’ubugingo, ibitabo n’inyigisho burateye ubwoba, biragoye kubona umuntu ubona inzira y’ibanga hagati y’urubuga rw’ibitekerezo binyuranye.

Ikibabaje kuruta byose ni ugushimishwa n’ubwenge; hariho impengamiro yo kwigaburira mu buryo bw’ubwenge gusa ibintu byose bigeze mu mutwe.

Inzererezi zo mu bwenge ntizishimishwa n’ibitabo byose bya subjective n’uburyo rusange byiganje ku masoko y’ibitabo, ahubwo noneho, hejuru ya byose, ziriyuburira kandi zikuzura ubuhezanduru n’ubuhezanduru bwikoreye bihendutse byiganje ahantu hose nk’ibyangiza.

Ingaruka z’aya magambo yose ni urujijo n’ukuyoba bigaragara kw’abagome bo mu bwenge.

Nyakira amabaruwa n’ibitabo by’ubwoko bwose buri gihe; abohereza nk’uko bisanzwe bambaza kuri iri cyangwa iriya shuri, kuri iki cyangwa iriya gitabo, ndiyemeza gusubiza ibi bikurikira: Reka umutwe wicwe; ntabwo ugomba kwita ku buzima bw’abandi, kurawo inyamaswa yo gushaka kumenya, ntugomba kwita ku mashuri y’abandi, ba serious, wimenye, wikorereho iperereza, witegereze, n’ibindi.

Mu by’ukuri, icy’ingenzi ni ukwimenya neza mu nzego zose z’ubwenge.

Umwijima ni ubujiji; umucyo ni ubwenge; tugomba kureka umucyo ukinjira mu mwijima wacu; biragaragara ko umucyo ufite ubushobozi bwo gutsinda umwijima.

Ikibabaje ni uko abantu bafungiranwe mu bidukikije bibi kandi byanduye by’ubwenge bwabo bwite, basenga Ego yabo bakunda.

Abantu ntibashaka kumenya ko batagenga ubuzima bwabo bwite, mu by’ukuri umuntu wese agenzurwa imbere n’abandi bantu benshi, ndashaka kuvuga by’umwihariko ubwinshi bw’imyifatire dufite imbere.

Bigaragara ko buri umwe muri iyo myifatire ashyira mu bwenge bwacu icyo tugomba gutekereza, mu kanwa kacu icyo tugomba kuvuga, mu mutima wacu icyo tugomba kumva, n’ibindi.

Muri ibi bihe, kamere muntu ntakindi uretse robot iyobowe n’abantu batandukanye baharanira ubukuru kandi bagaharanira kugenzura byimazeyo ibigo bikuru by’imashini ndangagitsina.

Mu izina ry’ukuri, tugomba kwemeza mu buryo bukomeye ko inyamaswa y’ubwenge yitwa umuntu yibeshye nubwo yiyumva ko yifashe neza, ibaho mu kudohoka kwa psychologiya gukomeye.

Inyamaswa igikeri mu buryo ubwo aribwo bwose ntabwo ari iy’uruhande rumwe, iyo biba byo yaba yifashe neza.

Inyamaswa y’ubwenge ni iy’uruhande rwinshi kandi ibyo byagaragaye kenshi.

Ni gute umuntu yashobora kuringaniza? Kugira ngo hagireho kuringaniza gutunganye, hakenewe ubwenge bwakangutse.

Umucyo gusa w’ubwenge uyobowe atari mu nguni ahubwo mu buryo bwuzuye ku mutima wacu, urashobora gukemura itandukaniro, kwivuguruza kwa psychologiya no gushyiraho imbere mu kuringaniza nyakuri.

Niba dukemura iryo tsinda ryose ry’imyifatire dufite imbere, ubwenge burakanguka kandi nk’ingaruka cyangwa ingaruka, ukuringaniza nyakuri kwa psiki yacu bwite.

Ikibabaje ni uko abantu badashaka kumenya ubujiji babamo; barasinziriye cyane.

Iyo abantu bakanguka, buri wese yakumva abaturanyi be muri bo.

Iyo abantu bakanguka, abaturanyi bacu bakwiyumva imbere muri bo.

Hanyuma biragaragara ko intambara zitabaho kandi isi yose yaba paradizo.

Umucyo w’ubwenge, uduha kuringaniza psychologiya nyakuri, uza gushyira ikintu cyose ahantu hacyo, n’ibyo byajyaga bishyamirana natwe cyane, mu by’ukuri biguma ahantu hakwiye.

Ubwjiji bw’imbaga ni bunini cyane ku buryo batabasha no kubona isano iri hagati y’umucyo n’ubwenge.

Nta gushidikanya ko umucyo n’ubwenge ari ibintu bibiri by’ikintu kimwe; aho hari umucyo hari ubwenge.

Ubugoryi ni umwijima kandi uyu wa nyuma ubaho imbere muri twe.

Binyuze gusa mu kwitegereza psychologiya twemerera umucyo kwinjira mu mwijima wacu bwite.

“Umucyo waje mu mwijima ariko umwijima ntiwumva.”