Ibyabaye ku Muntu ku Giti cye

Kwitonda ubwitonzi no kwigenzura imbere mu Mutima birihutirwa cyane iyo bigeze ku kuvumbura imiterere mibi y’ubwenge. Nta gushidikanya, imiterere mibi yo mu mutima ishobora gukosorwa hakoreshejwe uburyo bukwiye.

Nk’uko ubuzima bwo mu mutima ari umuheto ukurura ibibera hanze, turakeneye cyane kandi byihutirwa gukuraho imiterere y’ubwenge itari yo mu mitekerereze yacu. Gukosora imiterere mibi y’ubwenge ni ngombwa iyo ushaka guhindura byimazeyo imiterere y’ibyago runaka.

Guhindura umubano wacu n’ibintu runaka birashoboka niba dukuye mu mutima wacu imiterere y’ubwenge idafite ishingiro. Ibyago bibi byo hanze bishobora guhinduka ibidafite ingaruka ndetse n’ibyubaka binyuze mu gukosora ubwenge imiterere mibi yo mu mutima.

Umuntu ashobora guhindura imiterere y’ibyago bibi bitubaho iyo yisukuye imbere mu mutima. Umuntu utajya akosora imiterere y’ubwenge idafite ishingiro, yiyita umunyambaraga, ahinduka umukumbi w’ibihe.

Gushyira ibintu ku murongo mu nzu yacu idatunganye imbere ni ingenzi cyane iyo ushaka guhindura inzira y’ubuzima bubi. Abantu baritotomba kuri byose, barababara, bararira, baritotomba, bashaka guhindura ubuzima, kuva mu byago barimo, ariko bibabaje ntibikora kuri bo ubwabo.

Abantu ntibashaka kumenya ko ubuzima bwo mu mutima bukurura ibibera hanze kandi ko ibi bibabaje biterwa n’imiterere idafite ishingiro yo mu mutima. Ibyo hanze ni ishusho y’iby’imbere; uhinduka imbere ateza imbere ibintu bishya.

Ibibera hanze ntibyigeze bibaho ingenzi nk’uburyo tubyitwaramo. Ese wagumye utuje imbere y’ugutuka? Ese wakiriye neza ibikorwa bibi by’abantu bagenzi bawe? Ese witwaye ute imbere y’ubuhemu bw’umukunzi wawe? Ese warekewe n’uburozi bw’ishyari? Ese warishe? Ese uri muri gereza?

Ibitaro, amarimbi cyangwa amazu y’ubuturo, amagereza, byuzuye abanyabyaha b’umutima mwiza bitwaye mu buryo budafite ishingiro imbere y’ibibera hanze. Intwaro nziza umuntu yakoresha mu buzima ni imiterere ikwiye y’ubwenge.

Umuntu ashobora kwambura intwaro inyamaswa z’inkazi no guhishura abagambanyi akoresheje imiterere ikwiye yo mu mutima. Imiterere mibi yo mu mutima itugira abakumbi batagira kirengera imbere y’ubugome bwa kimuntu. Nimwige guhangana n’ibintu bibi byo mu buzima busanzwe mufite imyitwarire ikwiye yo mu mutima…

Ntimukiyitiranye n’ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose; mwibuke ko byose bishira; mwige kubona ubuzima nk’ifilimi maze muzabone inyungu… Ntimukibagirwe ko ibintu bidafite agaciro bishobora kubageza ku byago niba mudakuye mu mitekerereze yanyu imiterere mibi yo mu mutima.

Ikintu cyose kiba hanze gikeneye, nta gushidikanya, itike ikwiye; ni ukuvuga imiterere nyayo y’ubwenge.