Uthando

Kusukela emabhenki esikole, abafundi kufanele baqonde ngokuphelele lokho okubizwa ngokuthi UTHANDO.

UKWESABA nokUNCINTELA kuvame ukudideka noTHANDO kodwa akulona UTHANDO.

Abafundi bancike kubazali babo nothisha futhi kucacile ukuthi bayabahlonipha futhi bayabesaba ngesikhathi esifanayo.

Abantwana, intsha kanye nezintokazi bancike kubazali babo ngokuphathelene nezingubo, ukudla, imali, indawo yokukhosela, njll. futhi kucace bha ukuthi bazizwa bevikelekile, bayazi ukuthi bancike kubazali babo yingakho bebahlonipha futhi baze babesabe, kodwa lokho akulona UTHANDO.

Njengesibonelo salokhu esikushoyo singaqinisekisa ngokunembile ukuthi yonke ingane, intsha noma intokazi, ithemba kakhulu abangani bayo esikoleni, kunabazali bayo.

Empeleni abantwana, intsha kanye nezintokazi baxoxa nozakwabo ngezinto eziyimfihlo abangasoze bazixoxa nabazali babo.

Lokho kusibonisa ukuthi akukho ukwethembana kweqiniso phakathi kwezingane nabazali, ukuthi alukho UTHANDO lweqiniso.

Kuyaphuthuma ukuqonda ukuthi kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi koTHANDO nalokho okuyihlonipho, ukwesaba, ukuncika, ukwesaba.

Kuyaphuthuma ukwazi ukuhlonipha abazali bethu nothisha, kodwa singaludidanisi inhlonipho noTHANDO.

INHLONIPHO noTHANDO kufanele zihlanganiswe NGOKUJULILE, kodwa akumele sididanise enye nenye.

Abazali bayabesaba abantwana babo, babafisela okuhle kakhulu, umsebenzi omuhle, umshado omuhle, ukuvikelwa, njll. futhi badidanisa lokho kwesaba noTHANDO lweqiniso.

Kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi ngaphandle koTHANDO LWEQINISO akunakwenzeka ukuthi abazali nothisha bangaqondisa izizukulwane ezintsha ngokuhlakanipha noma ngabe kunezinhloso ezinhle kakhulu.

Indlela eholela ESHIMENI igandaywe NGEZINHLOSO EZINHLE KAKHULU.

Sibona isimo esaziwa umhlaba wonke esithi “IZIGILAMKHUHLU EZIPHELELWE YIZIZATHU”. Lona yisifo esingokwengqondo esisabalale emhlabeni wonke. Inqwaba “YABANTWANA ABAHLE”, okuthiwa bathandwa kakhulu abazali babo, bonakele kakhulu, bathandwa kakhulu, bahlasela abantu abadlulayo abangenakuzivikela, bashaye futhi badlwengule abesifazane, bayeba, bajikijele ngamatshe, bahamba ngamaqembu ezigelekeqe bebangela umonakalo yonke indawo, abahloniphi othisha nabazali, njll. njll. njll.

“IZIGILAMKHUHLU EZIPHELELWE YIZIZATHU” ziyimveliso yokuntuleka koTHANDO lweqiniso.

Lapho kukhona UTHANDO lweqiniso akunakuba khona “IZIGILAMKHUHLU EZIPHELELWE YIZIZATHU”.

Ukuba abazali bathanda ngempela abantwana babo, bebeyokwazi ukubaqondisa ngobuhlakani futhi ngaleso sikhathi bekungeke kube khona “IZIGILAMKHUHLU EZIPHELELWE YIZIZATHU”

Izigilamkhuhlu eziphelelwe yizizathu ziyimveliso yokuqondisa okungalungile.

Abazali abazange babe noTHANDO olwanele lokuzinikela ngempela ekuqondiseni abantwana babo ngokuhlakanipha.

Abazali banamuhla bacabanga ngemali kuphela futhi banikeze ingane okuningi nokuningi, kanye nemoto yakamuva, nezimpahla zakamuva, njll. kodwa abathandi ngempela, abazi ukuthanda futhi yingakho “kunezigilamkhuhlu eziphelelwe yizizathu”.

Ukungajulile kwalesikhathi kubangelwa ukuntuleka koTHANDO LWEQINISO.

Impilo yanamuhla ifana nechibi elingajulile, elingenakujula.

Echibini elijulile lokuphila, izidalwa eziningi zingahlala, izinhlanzi eziningi, kodwa ichibi eliseceleni kwendlela, liyoma ngokushesha ngemisebe yelanga eshisayo bese kuthi ekupheleni okusalayo kube udaka, ukubola, ububi.

Akunakwenzeka ukuqonda ubuhle bempilo ngayo yonke inkazimulo yayo, uma singazange sifunde ukuthanda.

Abantu badidanisa inhlonipho nokwesaba nalokho okubizwa ngokuthi UTHANDO.

Siyabahlonipha abaphathi bethu futhi siyabesaba bese sikholwa ukuthi siyabathanda.

Izingane ziyabesaba abazali nothisha futhi ziyabahlonipha bese zikholelwa ukuthi ziyabathanda.

Ingane iyesaba isiswebhu, induku, amamaki amabi, ukukhuza ekhaya noma esikoleni, njll. bese ikholelwa ukuthi iyabathanda abazali nothisha kodwa empeleni iyabesaba kuphela.

Sincike emsebenzini, kumqashi, siyakwesaba ukuhlupheka, ukusala singenamsebenzi bese sikholwa ukuthi siyamthanda umqashi futhi size silwele izintshisekelo zakhe, sinakekele impahla yakhe kodwa lokho akulona UTHANDO, lokho ukwesaba.

Abantu abaningi bayesaba ukuzicabangela bona izimfihlakalo zokuphila nokufa, ukwesaba ukubuza, ukuphenya, ukuqonda, ukufunda, njll. bese beyamemeza bethi NGIYAMTHANDA UNKULUNKULU, FUTHI LOKHO KWANELE!

Bakholwa ukuthi bayamthanda UNKULUNKULU kodwa empeleni ABAZITHANDI, bayesaba.

Ngezikhathi zempi umfazi uzizwa ethanda umyeni wakhe kunanini ngaphambili futhi ulilangazelela ngesasasa elingenamkhawulo ukubuyela kwakhe ekhaya, kodwa empeleni akamthandi, wesaba kuphela ukusala ngaphandle komyeni, ngaphandle kokuvikelwa, njll. njll. njll.

Ubugqila obungokwengqondo, ukuncika, ukuncika kumuntu othile, akulona UTHANDO. KuwukWESABA kuphela futhi yilokho kuphela.

Ingane ezifundweni zayo incike KUTHISHA futhi kucacile ukuthi iyakwesaba UKUXOSHWA, amamaki amabi, ukukhuza futhi kaningi ikholwa ukuthi IYAMTHANDA kodwa okwenzekayo ukuthi iyamwesaba.

Lapho inkosikazi isisebenzisa noma isengozini yokufa ngenxa yanoma yisiphi isifo, umyeni ukholwa ukuthi uyamthanda kakhulu, kodwa empeleni okwenzekayo ukuthi wesaba ukumlahlekela, uncike kuye ezintweni eziningi, njengokudla, ubulili, ukuwashwa kwezingubo, ukuthinta, njll. futhi wesaba ukumlahlekela. Lokho akulona UTHANDO.

Wonke umuntu uthi uthanda wonke umuntu kodwa akunjalo: Kunzima kakhulu ukuthola empilweni umuntu owaziyo ukuthanda NGEQINISO.

Ukuba abazali bebethanda ngempela abantwana babo, ukuba abantwana bebethanda ngempela abazali babo, ukuba othisha bebethanda ngempela abafundi babo, bekungeke kube khona izimpi. Izimpi bezingeke zenzeke ngekhulu lamaphesenti.

Okwenzekayo ukuthi abantu abakaqondi ukuthi luyini uthando, nakho konke ukwesaba nakho konke ubugqila obungokwengqondo, nayo yonke intshiseko, njll. bayakudidanisa nalokho okubizwa ngokuthi UTHANDO.

Abantu abazi ukuthi bangathanda kanjani, ukuba abantu bebazi ukuthanda, impilo ngabe isiyipharadesi.

IZITHANDANI zikholwa ukuthi ziyathanda futhi abaningi bangaze bakufunge ngegazi ukuthi bayathanda. Kodwa bavele BASHA INTLIZIYO. Uma intshiseko isanelisekile, umbhoshongo wamakhadi uyawa.

INTLIZIYO evuthayo ivame ukudukisa INGQONDO NENHLIZIYO. Wonke umuntu OSHISEKILE ukholwa ukuthi UYATHANDA.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuthola empilweni umbhangqwana oqiniselwe ngempela. Minyaka yonke imibhangqwana ESHISEKAYO kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuthola umbhangqwana OTHANDANAYO.

Bonke abaculi bahlabelela ngoTHANDO kodwa abazi ukuthi luyini UTHANDO futhi badidanisa INTLIZIYO evuthayo noTHANDO.

Uma kunento enzima kakhulu kulokhu kuphila, UKUNGADIDANISI INTLIZIYO evuthayo noTHANDO.

INTLIZIYO evuthayo ubuthi obumnandi kakhulu nobukhohlisayo obungacabangeka, buhlala bunqoba ngentengo yegazi.

INTLIZIYO evuthayo iyINKOKHELO YOBULILI ngekhulu lamaphesenti, INTLIZIYO evuthayo inobudlova kodwa ngezinye izikhathi futhi iyacwenga kakhulu futhi iyacophelela. Ihlala ididaniswa noTHANDO.

Othisha kufanele bafundise abafundi, Intsha nezintokazi, ukuhlukanisa phakathi koTHANDO NENHLIZIYO evuthayo. Yilokho kuphela abangagwema ngakho izinhlekelele eziningi empilweni kamuva.

Othisha baphoqelekile ukuthi bakhe isibopho sabafundi futhi yingakho kufanele babalungiselele kahle ukuze bangabi yizidalwa eziyingozi empilweni.

Kuyadingeka ukuqonda lokho okuyiyo UTHANDO, lokho okungakwazi ukuxutshwa nomona, intshiseko, ubudlova, ukwesaba, ukunamathela, ukuncika ngokwengqondo, njll. njll. njll.

Ngeshwa UTHANDO alukho kubantu, kodwa futhi akuyona into engatholakala, ithengwe, itshalwe njengembali ye-greenhouse, njll.

UTHANDO kufanele LUZALEKE kithi futhi LUZALWA kuphela uma sesikuqonda ngokujulile ukuthi yini INZONDO esiyiphethe ngaphakathi, ukuthi yini UKWESABA, INTLIZIYO EVUTHAYO YEZOCANSI, ukwesaba, ubugqila obungokwengqondo, ukuncika, njll. njll. njll.

Kufanele siqonde ukuthi ziyini lezi ziphambeko ZENGQONDO, kufanele siqonde ukuthi zenzeka kanjani kithi hhayi kuphela ezingeni elingokwengqondo lempilo, kodwa futhi nakwamanye amazinga afihlekile futhi angaziwa NGAPHANSI KWENGQONDO.

Kuyadingeka ukukhipha kuzo zonke izindawo ezifihlekile zengqondo zonke lezo ziphambeko. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho kuzalwa ngendlela engazenzakaleli nenenhlanzeko, lokho okubizwa ngokuthi UTHANDO.

Akunakwenzeka ukufuna ukushintsha umhlaba ngaphandle kwelangabi loTHANDO. UTHANDO kuphela olungashintsha umhlaba ngempela.