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Kuyadingeka ukuthanda nokuthandwa, kodwa ngenhlanhla embi yomhlaba abantu abathandi futhi abathandwa.

Lokho okubizwa ngokuthi uthando kuyinto engaziwa kubantu futhi bayiveza kalula njengokuthatheka nokwesaba.

Ukube abantu bebengathanda futhi bathandeke, izimpi bezingeke zenzeke nhlobo phezu komhlaba.

Imishado eminingi ebingajabula ngempela, ngenhlanhla embi ayinjabuli ngenxa yenzondo yakudala eqongeleleke enkumbulweni.

Ukube abashadile bebengaba nomusa, bebezokhohlwa okwedlule okubuhlungu futhi baphile ngokugcwele, begcwele injabulo yangempela.

Ingqondo iyabulala uthando, iyalichitha. Okuhlangenwe nakho, intukuthelo yakudala, umona wakudala, konke lokhu kuqongelelwe enkumbulweni, kuyaluchitha uthando.

Omakoti abaningi abathukuthele bangajabula ukube bebenomusa owanele wokukhohlwa okwedlule futhi baphile njengamanje bethanda umyeni.

Amadoda amaningi abengajabula ngempela ngamakhosikazi awo ukube ebenomusa owanele wokuthethelela amaphutha amadala futhi akhohlwe izikhalo nokudumazeka okuqongeleleke enkumbulweni.

Kuyadingeka, kuphuthuma ukuba imishado iqonde incazelo ejulile yalesi sikhathi.

Amadoda namakhosikazi kufanele bazizwe njengabasanda kushada, bekhohlwa okwedlule futhi bephila ngenjabulo njengamanje.

Uthando nenzondo yizinto ezingahambisani nhlobo. Othandweni akukwazi ukuba khona inzondo yanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Uthando luyintethelelo yaphakade.

Kukhona uthando kulabo abazizwa bekhathazeka ngempela ngokuhlupheka kwabangane nezitha zabo. Kukhona uthando lweqiniso kulowo osebenza ngenhliziyo yakhe yonke ngenhlalakahle yabathobekile, abampofu, abaswele.

Kukhona uthando kulowo ozizwa emzwela ngokuzenzakalelayo nangokwemvelo umlimi onisela umsele ngesithukuthuku sakhe, umuntu wasemzaneni ohluphekayo, umncengi ocela uhlamvu lwemali nenja ethobekile ekhathazekile negulayo efa yindlala osebeni lomgwaqo.

Lapho sisiza umuntu ngenhliziyo yethu yonke, lapho sinakekela isihlahla ngokwemvelo nangokuzenzakalelayo futhi sinisela izimbali zengadi ngaphandle kokuthi kukhona osicela ukuba sikwenze, kukhona umusa weqiniso, uzwelo lweqiniso, uthando lweqiniso.

Ngenhlanhla embi yomhlaba, abantu abanawo umusa weqiniso. Abantu bazikhathaza kuphela ngempumelelo zabo zobugovu, izifiso, impumelelo, ulwazi, okuhlangenwe nakho, ukuhlupheka, ubumnandi, njll. njll.

Emhlabeni kunabantu abaningi, abanomusa wamanga kuphela. Kukhona umusa wamanga kosopolitiki abaqili, impungushe yokhetho echitha imali ngenhloso yobugovu yokuthola amandla, udumo, isikhundla, ingcebo, njll., njll. Akufanele sididanise imbila nengwe.

Umusa weqiniso awunazithakazelo nhlobo, kodwa kungadidaniseka kalula nomusa wamanga wobugovu wezimpungushe zezombusazwe, izigebengu zezimali, amahlwempu afisa owesifazane, njll. njll.

Kufanele sibe nomusa enhliziyweni. Umusa weqiniso awuveli Engqondweni, umusa wangempela uyiphunga lenhliziyo.

Ukube abantu bebengaba nomusa bebengakhohlwa yonke inzondo eqongeleleke enkumbulweni, konke okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu kwezinsuku eziningi ezidlule futhi bafunde ukuphila njalo ngenjabulo, ngaso sonke isikhathi benomusa, begcwele ubuqotho beqiniso.

Ngenhlanhla embi uMI (mina) yinkumbulo futhi uhlala esikhathini esidlule, ufuna ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubuyela esikhathini esidlule. Okwedlule kuqeda abantu, kuchitha injabulo, kuyabulala uthando.

Ingqondo eboshiwe esikhathini esidlule ayisoze yakwazi ukuqonda ngokugcwele incazelo ejulile yesikhathi esiphila kuso.

Baningi abantu abasibhalelayo befuna induduzo, becela ibalsamu eliyigugu ukuze baphilise izinhliziyo zabo ezibuhlungu, kodwa bambalwa abazikhathazayo ngokududuza abasosizini.

Baningi abantu abasibhalela ukuze basixoxele ngesimo esidabukisayo abaphila kuso, kodwa bayingcosana abaphula isinkwa esisodwa okufanele sibondle ukuze basabele abanye abaswele.

Abantu abafuni ukuqonda ukuthi ngemuva kwayo yonke imiphumela kukhona imbangela nokuthi ngokushintsha imbangela kuphela esishintsha umphumela.

U-MI, u-MI wethu othandekayo, ungamandla ahlala kokhokho bethu futhi adale izimbangela ezithile ezedlule ezemiphumela yazo yamanje ebambezela ubukhona bethu.

Sidinga UMUSA wokushintsha izimbangela nokuguqula imiphumela. Sidinga umusa wokuqondisa umkhumbi wobukhona bethu ngokuhlakanipha.

Sidinga umusa wokushintsha impilo yethu siqu ngokuphelele.

Umusa osemthethweni osebenzayo awuveli engqondweni. Uzwelo lweqiniso nokuthanda kweqiniso okusuka enhliziyweni, akusoze kwaba umphumela wokwesaba.

Kuyadingeka ukuqonda ukuthi ukwesaba kuchitha uzwelo, kuqeda umusa wenhliziyo futhi kuqeda kithi iphunga elimnandi LOTHANDO.

Ukwesaba kuyimpande yakho konke ukonakala, imvelaphi eyimfihlo yazo zonke izimpi, ubuthi obubulalayo obonakalisayo futhi obubulalayo.

Othisha kanye nothisha bezikole, amakolishi namanyuvesi kufanele baqonde isidingo sokuqondisa abafundi babo endleleni yomusa weqiniso, isibindi nobuqotho benhliziyo.

Abantu ababuthuntu nabayiziyatha besizukulwane esidlule, esikhundleni sokuqonda ukuthi yini lobo buthi bokwesaba, babulima njengembali ebulalayo yesitshalo sokushisa. Umphumela waleyo nqubo kwaba ukukhohlakala, isiphithiphithi nokungabi namthetho.

Othisha kanye nothisha kufanele baqonde ihora esiphila kulo, isimo esibucayi esikuso kanye nesidingo sokwakha izizukulwane ezintsha phezu kwezisekelo zokuziphatha eziguqukayo ezihambisana nenkathi ye-athomu okwamanje yokucindezeleka nobuhlungu iqala phakathi nokuduma okukhulu komcabango.

IMFUNDISO EYISISEKELO isekelwe ku-sicology eguqukayo kanye nokuziphatha okuguqukayo, okuhambisana nesigqi esisha esishukumisayo senkathi entsha.

Umuzwa wokubambisana kufanele uthathe indawo ngokuphelele yokulwa okubi kokuncintisana kobugovu. Kwenza kube yinto engenakwenzeka ukwazi ukusebenzisana lapho singabandakanyi isimiso somusa osebenzayo noguqukayo.

Kuphuthuma ukuqonda ngokuphelele, hhayi kuphela ezingeni lobuhlakani, kodwa futhi nasezindaweni ezahlukene ezingaziwa zengqondo engazi lutho nengqondo engaphansi kokwenzeka ukuthi yini ukuntuleka komusa nokwesabeka kobugovu. Kuphela ngokwenza ukuqaphela ukuthi ubani kithi ubugovu nokuntuleka komusa okuvela enhliziyweni yethu iphunga elimnandi LOTHANDO LWEQINISO nokuthi UMUSA OSEBENZAYO akuveli engqondweni.