Umbuso Wangaphakathi

Ukuhlanganisa izimo zangaphakathi nezigameko zangaphandle ngendlela efanele wukwazi ukuphila ngobuhlakani… Noma yisiphi isigameko esiphilwe ngobuhlakani sidinga isimo esithile sangaphakathi esihambisanayo…

Nokho, ngeshwa abantu uma bebuyekeza impilo yabo, bacabanga ukuthi yona ngokwayo yakhiwe yizigameko zangaphandle kuphela… Maye abantu! bacabanga ukuthi ukube akuzange kwenzeke lesi noma lesiya sigameko, impilo yabo ngabe ingcono…

Bacabanga ukuthi inhlanhla ibahlangabezane futhi balahlekelwa yithuba lokujabula… Bazisola ngalokho abakulahlile, bakhala ngalokho abakudelele, bayabubula bekhumbula iziphazamiso nezinhlupheko ezindala…

Abantu abafuni ukuqonda ukuthi ukuchitheka akukhona ukuphila nokuthi ikhono lokuba khona ngokuqaphela lincike kuphela kwikhwalithi yezimo zangaphakathi zoMphefumulo… Akunandaba ngempela ukuthi zizinhle kangakanani izigameko zangaphandle zempilo, uma singatholakali ngaleso sikhathi esimweni sangaphakathi esifanele, izigameko ezinhle kakhulu zingabonakala ziyisidina, zicasula noma zimane ziyisicefe…

Othile ulindele ngenhliziyo enkulu idili lomshado, kuyisigameko, kodwa kungase kwenzeke ukuthi ukhathazeke kakhulu ngesikhathi esifanele sesigameko, kangangokuthi empeleni angajabuleli lutho kuso futhi konke lokho kuphenduke kube yomile futhi kubande njengenqubo…

Okuhlangenwe nakho kusifundisile ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abaya edilini noma emdansweni, abajabulela ngempela… Akukaze kushode isicefe emicimbini emihle kakhulu futhi izinto ezimnandi kakhulu zijabulisa abanye futhi zenza abanye bakhale…

Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuhlanganisa ngasese isigameko sangaphandle nesimo sangaphakathi esifanele… Kuyadabukisa ukuthi abantu abakwazi ukuphila ngokuqaphela: bayakhala lapho kufanele bahleke futhi bayahleka lapho kufanele bakhale…

Ukulawula kuhlukile: Isihlakaniphi singajabula kodwa singalokothi sigcwale isiphithiphithi sobudlali; sidabuke kodwa singalokothi siphele amandla futhi sicindezeleke… sizolile phakathi kobudlova; singazibambi emidlweni; simsulwa phakathi kokunethezeka, njll.

Abantu abanomunyu nabangenathemba bacabanga okubi kakhulu ngempilo futhi ngokushesha abafuni ukuphila… Nsuku zonke sibona abantu abangagcini nje ngokungajabuli, kodwa futhi — okubi nakakhulu — benza impilo yabanye ibe buhlungu…

Abantu abanjalo ngeke bashintshe ngisho noma bephila nsuku zonke bedla imicimbi; isifo sengqondo basiphethe ngaphakathi… abantu abanjalo banezimo ezimbi ngempela zangaphakathi…

Nokho lezo zihloko zizibiza ngokuthi zilungile, zingcwele, zinesimilo, ziyizicukuthwane, ziyasiza, zingabafel ‘ukholo, njll., njll., njll. Bangabantu abazicabanga kakhulu; abantu abazithanda kakhulu…

Abantu abazihawukela kakhulu futhi abahlala befuna izindlela zokuphunyuka ukuze bagweme imithwalo yabo yemfanelo… Abantu abanjalo bajwayele imizwelo ephansi futhi kusobala ukuthi ngaleso sizathu badala nsuku zonke izakhi zengqondo ezingezona ezabantu.

Izigameko ezibuhlungu, izingqinamba zenhlanhla, ubumpofu, izikweletu, izinkinga, njll., zingezalabo bantu abangakwazi ukuphila… Noma ubani angakha isiko elicebile lokuhlakanipha, kodwa bambalwa kakhulu abantu abafunde ukuphila ngokulungile…

Uma umuntu efuna ukuhlukanisa izigameko zangaphandle nezimo zangaphakathi zokuqaphela, ubonisa ngokuqondile ukungakwazi kwakhe ukuba khona ngesithunzi. Labo abafunda ukuhlanganisa ngokuqaphela izigameko zangaphandle nezimo zangaphakathi, bahamba endleleni yempumelelo…