Ukuhumusha Okuzenzakalelayo
Izigameko Zomuntu Siqu
Ukuzibuka ngaphakathi ngokuphelele kuMina uqobo kuyinto okungamele ilibaziseke uma kuziwa ekutholeni izimo ezingalungile zengqondo. Ngokungangabazeki, izimo zangaphakathi ezingalungile zingalungiswa ngezindlela ezifanele.
Njengoba impilo yangaphakathi iyimagnet edonsa izenzakalo zangaphandle, sidinga ngokushesha okukhulu ukususa ezimweni zethu zengqondo izimo zengqondo ezingalungile. Ukulungisa izimo zengqondo ezingalungile kubalulekile uma ufuna ukushintsha ngokuyisisekelo imvelo yezenzakalo ezithile ezingafuneki.
Ukushintsha ubudlelwano bethu nezenzakalo ezithile kungenzeka uma sisusa ngaphakathi kwethu izimo zengqondo ezingenangqondo. Izimo zangaphandle ezilimazayo zingaphenduka ezingenabungozi ngisho zibe ezakhayo ngokulungiswa okuhlakaniphile kwezimo zangaphakathi ezingalungile.
Umuntu angayishintsha imvelo yezenzakalo ezingathandeki ezimehlelayo uma ezihlanza ngaphakathi. Lowo ongalokothi alungise izimo zengqondo ezingenangqondo, ezicabanga ukuthi uqine kakhulu, uba yisisulu sezimo.
Ukuhlela indlu yethu yangaphakathi engahlelekile kubalulekile uma ufisa ukushintsha inkambo yokuphila okungenhlanhla. Abantu bayakhononda ngakho konke, bayahlupheka, bayakhala, bayakhala, bangathanda ukushintsha izimpilo zabo, baphume enhlekeleleni abazithola bekuyo, ngeshwa abazisebenzeli bona.
Abantu abafuni ukuqaphela ukuthi impilo yangaphakathi idonsa izimo zangaphandle nokuthi uma lezi zibuhlungu kungenxa yezimo zangaphakathi ezingenangqondo. Okwangaphandle kumane kuyisibonakaliso salokho okungaphakathi; lowo oshintsha ngaphakathi uqala uhlelo olusha lwezinto.
Izenzakalo zangaphandle azisoze zaba yibaluleke njengendlela yokusabela kuzo. Ingabe uhlale uzolile lapho uhlukunyezwa? Ingabe wamukele ngenjabulo ukubonakaliswa okungathandeki kwabanye abantu? Wasabela kanjani ekungathembekini komuntu omthandayo? Ingabe uzivumela ukuba uthathwe ushevu womona? Ingabe wabulala? Ingabe usejele?
Izibhedlela, amathuna, amajele, zigcwele abantu abaqotho abenze amaphutha abasabela ngendlela engenangqondo ezenzakalweni zangaphandle. Isikhali esingcono kakhulu umuntu angasisebenzisa empilweni yisimo esifanele sengqondo.
Umuntu angahlubula izilwane ezinonya futhi adalule abakhapheli ngezimo ezifanele zangaphakathi. Izimo ezingalungile zangaphakathi zisenza izisulu ezingenakuzivikela zobubi bomuntu. Funda ukubhekana nezenzakalo ezingathandeki kakhulu zokuphila okusebenzayo ngesimo esifanele sangaphakathi…
Ningazihlanganisi nanoma yisiphi isenzakalo; khumbulani ukuthi konke kuyadlula; fundani ukubona impilo njengefilimu futhi nizothola izinzuzo… Ningakhohlwa ukuthi izenzakalo ezingenayo imfuneko zinganiholela enhlekeleleni uma ningazisusi ezimweni zenu zengqondo izimo ezingalungile zangaphakathi.
Isenzakalo ngasinye sangaphandle sidinga, ngokungangabazeki, ithikithi elifanele; okusho ukuthi, isimo esiqondile sengqondo.